Workplace Friendships Are the New Relationships, And That’s Okay

Nobody prepares you for how lonely adulthood can get. One minute, you’re in university surrounded by your best pals, and the next, you’re deep in the 9–5 cycle, realising the only people you talk to every day are your colleagues. Somewhere between back-to-back meetings, team lunches, and gossiping about the boss’s new car, workplace friendships have become the relationships that hold us together. And honestly? That’s okay. How the office becomes your social circleI&

If you love skincare, you already know that glycolic acid is that overachieving AHA girlie that keeps your face smooth, bright, and drama-free.But here's the plot twist: she also works wonders on your scalp. Think of it like extending your skincare routine a little higher, because your scalp is skin and it deserves the same level of attention.The scalp has to go through a lot: buildup, flakes, and clogged follicles. Using glycolic acid correctly can reset and refresh it, creating the perfect fou

Trust is an essential component of a strong relationship, but it doesn’t happen quickly. And once it’s broken, it’s hard to rebuild.But here's the hopeful part: it can be repaired. It takes real effort, a lot of patience, and a firm commitment from both parties involved.  In this article, we're going to explore some effective ways to rebuild trust, share some tips for communicating better, and explain why being consistent and open is so crucial in building trust in your re

Beef tallow went from an old-fashioned ingredient to a trending skincare staple, especially among natural beauty and "ancestral wellness" communities. Nowadays, everyone seems to talk about tallow; why it works, how it compares to conventional moisturisers, and whether it's truly worth the hype.But what is beef tallow, exactly? And more importantly, does it actually do anything for the skin?This guide covers the science, the benefits, possible drawbacks, and everything you may want to know befor

You’re chatting with her every day. She replies to your texts fast, calls you “dear”, and smiles a little too long. The vibes are sweet, the banter is flowing, and somehow you’ve started overthinking every emoji she sends. Is she just friendly… or is there something more? You are uncertain about what to think, but you’re not ready to embarrass your lineage by making assumptions. After all, you read somewhere that Nigerian men confuse kindness for attract

DevFest Lagos 2025 was a full experience this year; energetic, intense, and packed with insights that truly captured the current mood of the Nigerian tech ecosystem. I attended the event as a tech writer who genuinely enjoys learning from the tech community, and the five-day festival showed again why DevFest Lagos remains one of the most influential tech conferences in Nigeria. Organised by Google Developer Groups (GDG), DevFest brings together software engineers, product designers, AI enthusias

Not every great hire comes wrapped in a perfect résumé. In fact, some of the most impactful employees start as “unpolished” candidates whose CVs might be rough, whose experience seems limited, or whose presentation isn’t as refined.Learning to spot potential beyond the paper has become one of the most valuable hiring skills a recruiter or employer can develop. Here are some tips to keep in mind:  1. Look for evidence of learning agility A polished résu

You would agree with me that, no matter the gender, appearance is not just about looking good. It is about feeling confident, intentional, and put-together. Choosing a hairstyle can be tricky for many men, especially because most of them have naturally textured hair. You want something clean without losing your personality, stylish without looking too casual, and easy to maintain without making it look like you put no effort at all. Well, the good news is there are plenty of modern, profess

When it comes to hairstyles, there are a million and one ways to wear your hair, from long, short, mid-length, layered, curly, braided, and straightened; the list goes on.  Although short hair is arguably the one length that gives you the most freedom to switch things up without too much effort. You can play with different cuts, colours, textures and shapes far more easily than you can with long hair.  With the big chop comes the freedom to experiment. You can play with different cuts,

On Thursday, 20 November 2025, Polo Avenue hosted Swedish eyewear designer Anna-Karin Karlsson at the Polo Luxury Penthouse in Victoria Island, Lagos. It was her first official entry into the Nigerian market, and Polo Avenue, Nigeria’s leading fashion luxury retailer, is the exclusive partner bringing her world-renowned eyewear to Africa. The event brought together editors, stylists and fashion lovers for an intimate conversation about craftsmanship, creativity, heritage and the growt

Love is sweet, breakups are bitter, moving on is messy, but healing is important. For many, a breakup without closure leaves them replaying memories, questioning themselves, and wondering if they’ll ever truly move on. That nagging feeling in your chest? The one that keeps you awake at night, either turning ‘eba’ (garri), binge-watching movies or posting sad quotes on your stories…that’s the absence of closure.
Closure is a deep, emotional resolution that allo

Aké Arts & Book Festival has always felt like a living, breathing space. A place where stories walk around as people, and conversations come alive. This year, the festival returned with its 13th edition under the theme “Reclaiming Truth,” and from the very first hour, that theme sat boldly at the centre of everything.Even though I streamed Day One virtually and attended the remaining days in person, the energy was the same on both sides of the screen. It was intentional, e

Premium single malt whisky, The Singleton, is set to host its most exclusive and immersive event yet: 'The Singleton Escapes: Passport to Serenity.' This event will take place in Lagos on November 28th, 2025, this experience is a cultural invitation to bask in the Moment and discover how to Savour the Single Moment. The Singleton recognises that living fully isn't about countless experiences, but about deeply luxuriating in the Single Moment. This private event will bring together Nigeria&r

Open relationships are often misunderstood, which can lead to confusion or mistaken beliefs about how they work and what they're about. Essentially, in an open relationship, the people involved agree that they can have romantic or sexual relationships with other people while still keeping their primary bond with each other. For the people who engage in an open relationship, this setup can be rewarding, giving people the chance to explore their desires and form connections outside the u

Open relationships are often misunderstood, which can lead to confusion or mistaken beliefs about how they work and what they're about. Essentially, in an open relationship, the people involved agree that they can have romantic or sexual relationships with other people while still keeping their primary bond with each other. For the people who engage in an open relationship, this setup can be rewarding, giving people the chance to explore their desires and form connections outside the u

You are probably familiar with dandruff when it appears on the scalp. It’s a common condition, usually characterised by itchy and flaking skin. But ‌just as you can get dry, flaky skin on your scalp, it is possible to get dandruff in your beard.
Dandruff in beards is a common problem that many men overlook. It causes itchiness, discomfort, and flakes. Though it is merely a cosmetic issue, beard dandruff could signal an underlying skin issue, and so understanding the causes and effecti

This December, L’amour Events, a leading event curator, is making sure the holidays are not just for the grown-ups because the kids will be outside, too! The L’amour Christmas Kids Festival is back and filling Lagos Preparatory School, Ikoyi, with laughter, games, and unforgettable moments from December 23rd to 26th. From 10 am to 8 pm, children aged 0-16 will experience a wonderland brimming with festive cheer, adventure, and endless fun. Every child in attendance will get to explor

Bella Disu’s TEDx Ikoyi talk, “Say Yes Now: Why Readiness is a Myth,” is resonating widely for its clarity and emotional honesty – not because it targets one group, but because it speaks to something universal: we hesitate at the very moment we need to move.In the talk, she reflects on the quiet weight of waiting – the belief that one more milestone, one more qualification, or one perfect condition is needed before taking a step. Psychologists call this destination

Christmas is around the corner, and if you want to give someone a gift that feels personal, luxurious, and memorable, perfume is always a winning choice. The good news? You don’t have to spend a fortune to get something that smells amazing.Whether you’re shopping for your girlfriend, wife, mum, sister, or even yourself (because why not?), here are seven perfume gifts under ₦100k that will make anyone smile this festive season.Let’s get into it. 1. Beguile Discovery Set &n

On Sunday, 16th November, BOZ Diamond hosted an intimate, quietly luxurious evening for its most cherished clients at the Love & Boz Circle - Privé, a private gathering that celebrated loyalty, artistry, and the timeless stories behind every BOZ creation. The exclusive event, led by BOZ founder Sherifat Mohammed, welcomed a curated guest list including award-winning actress and filmmaker Omoni Oboli, style sensation Priscilla Ojo, and entrepreneur Akin Faminu, among other distinguishe

You’re in the moment. Things are heating up, but you’re not exactly feeling it. You are thinking, "I wish they’d go a little slower," or "Right there, oh my god, don’t move… but what if they do?"Your mind races. You are also scared of talking because you feel like you could ruin the moment. I’ve had someone tell me certain phrases excite them so much that they feel a sudden surge of energy to perform even better in bed. This is not dirty talking, but I daresa

In Nigeria, certain brands have become so embedded in daily life that their names are often used to describe entire product categories. This phenomenon, known as “genericide” in business, typically occurs when a brand is a market pioneer or dominates its sector so thoroughly that consumers forget the actual name of the product. Nigeria, Africa’s largest economy and most populous nation, presents a highly competitive consumer market. Thousands of products jostle for attention, y

At some point, rose water did seem like just another beauty trend, yes, but it’s actually surprisingly useful. If you’ve used it, you know how refreshing and soothing it can feel. If you haven’t, imagine a simple, natural way to hydrate your skin, add a soft floral scent to your hair, and the same scent to your room, and bring a little natural calm into your day.The good part is you don’t need to hunt down expensive bottles or worry about hidden chemicals. All you need ar

You’ve heard of monogamy, polyandry (a woman with multiple husbands), polygamy (a man with multiple wives), open marriages and Polyamory. Now, you’ve seen ‘lavender marriage’ floating around on TikTok or heard it in casual conversations and wondered what it means. If you’ve watched House of the Dragon and Another Simple Favour, then you have an idea what a lavender marriage is. The relationship between Dante (Michele Morrone) and Emily (Blake Lively) is a perfe

The Federal High Court in Abuja has convicted Nnamdi Kanu, leader of the proscribed Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), on all seven terrorism-related charges filed against him by the Federal Government. Justice James Omotosho delivered the judgment on Thursday, November 20th, after finding Kanu guilty of leading a proscribed organisation, inciting violence, and issuing threats that resulted in loss of life, destruction of property, and disruption of socio-economic activities across states. The

New York‑based criminal‑justice advocate and content‑creator Jess Martinez has officially achieved the title of world’s largest afro (female‑living), as recognised by the Guinness World Records (GWR). Jess is the second woman to ever earn this title, following in the footsteps of Aevin Dugas. Dugas originally set the record in 2010, and by 2025, she had become a Guinness World Records ICON for her work promoting body positivity and natural hair acceptance

The 74th Miss Universe competition has officially come to an end, and after weeks of global buzz, emotional moments, and headline-making chaos, Mexico’s Fatima Bosch has emerged as the new Miss Universe 2025.  Nigeria’s representative, Onyinyechi Basil, competed at this year’s pageant, and now we finally have the full picture of how the competition played out. From backstage confrontations to judges resigning and political tensions spilling onto the runway, this year&rsquo

Omah Lay’s voice has once been described as ‘darkly sparkling’. There’s something deeply intimate and soothing about his voice, so when you first hear it, you feel like he’s speaking to your heart. But behind those slow-burning melodies lies a story of grit, healing, and perseverance.  Who is Omah Lay? Born Stanley Omah Didia on 19 May 1997, in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, Omah Lay is one of Nigeria’s most influential Afro-fusion and Afrobeats artists.&nb

As the 74th edition of Miss Universe 2025 takes centre stage in Bangkok, eyes are on the contestants of African delegates who bring their nations' stories, cultures, and ambitions onto the global platform. From community advocates to academics to entrepreneurs, they prove that beauty pageants are just as much about leadership and influence as they are about poise. This year, from Nigeria to Zimbabwe, Africa's representation stands not only for glamour but for change, inspiration, and identi

There might be no perfect wedding, but there are definitely songs perfect for weddings. No matter how magical a wedding is, the décor, the food or the venue, one thing sets the tone for the entire celebration, and it is the music.The mood and feel of a wedding depend largely on the songs that are being played or performed. Whether it is international chart-toppers or home-grown classics, some songs just fit perfectly into love stories. They have become staples in playlists, soundtracks to