• The Simple Way to Use Glycolic Acid on Your Scalp

    If you love skincare, you already know that glycolic acid is that overachieving AHA girlie that keeps your face smooth, bright, and drama-free.But here's the plot twist: she also works wonders on your scalp. Think of it like extending your skincare routine a little higher, because your scalp is skin and it deserves the same level of attention.The scalp has to go through a lot: buildup, flakes, and clogged follicles. Using glycolic acid correctly can reset and refresh it, creating the perfect fou
  • Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal: What Works and What Doesn’t

    Trust is an essential component of a strong relationship, but it doesn’t happen quickly. And once it’s broken, it’s hard to rebuild.But here's the hopeful part: it can be repaired. It takes real effort, a lot of patience, and a firm commitment from both parties involved.  In this article, we're going to explore some effective ways to rebuild trust, share some tips for communicating better, and explain why being consistent and open is so crucial in building trust in your re
  • Is Beef Tallow the Secret to Soft Skin or Just Hype?

    Beef tallow went from an old-fashioned ingredient to a trending skincare staple, especially among natural beauty and "ancestral wellness" communities. Nowadays, everyone seems to talk about tallow; why it works, how it compares to conventional moisturisers, and whether it's truly worth the hype.But what is beef tallow, exactly? And more importantly, does it actually do anything for the skin?This guide covers the science, the benefits, possible drawbacks, and everything you may want to know befor
  • How to Know If She Likes You: Clear Signs Women Drop When They’re Into You

    You’re chatting with her every day. She replies to your texts fast, calls you “dear”, and smiles a little too long. The vibes are sweet, the banter is flowing, and somehow you’ve started overthinking every emoji she sends. Is she just friendly… or is there something more? You are uncertain about what to think, but you’re not ready to embarrass your lineage by making assumptions. After all, you read somewhere that Nigerian men confuse kindness for attract
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  • I Went to DevFest Lagos 2025, Left With 100 Lessons and A Bottle of Water

    DevFest Lagos 2025 was a full experience this year; energetic, intense, and packed with insights that truly captured the current mood of the Nigerian tech ecosystem. I attended the event as a tech writer who genuinely enjoys learning from the tech community, and the five-day festival showed again why DevFest Lagos remains one of the most influential tech conferences in Nigeria. Organised by Google Developer Groups (GDG), DevFest brings together software engineers, product designers, AI enthusias
  • Beyond the CV: How to Spot Potential in Unpolished Candidates

    Not every great hire comes wrapped in a perfect résumé. In fact, some of the most impactful employees start as “unpolished” candidates whose CVs might be rough, whose experience seems limited, or whose presentation isn’t as refined.Learning to spot potential beyond the paper has become one of the most valuable hiring skills a recruiter or employer can develop. Here are some tips to keep in mind:  1. Look for evidence of learning agility A polished résu
  • Top 10 Professional Hairstyles for Men

    You would agree with me that, no matter the gender, appearance is not just about looking good. It is about feeling confident, intentional, and put-together. Choosing a hairstyle can be tricky for many men, especially because most of them have naturally textured hair. You want something clean without losing your personality, stylish without looking too casual, and easy to maintain without making it look like you put no effort at all. Well, the good news is there are plenty of modern, profess
  • Thinking of Cutting Your Hair Short? Here Are 7 Low-Maintenance Styles

    When it comes to hairstyles, there are a million and one ways to wear your hair, from long, short, mid-length, layered, curly, braided, and straightened; the list goes on.  Although short hair is arguably the one length that gives you the most freedom to switch things up without too much effort. You can play with different cuts, colours, textures and shapes far more easily than you can with long hair.  With the big chop comes the freedom to experiment. You can play with different cuts,
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  • Inside the Dazzling Collaboration Between Polo Avenue and Anna-Karin Karlsson 

    On Thursday, 20 November 2025, Polo Avenue hosted Swedish eyewear designer Anna-Karin Karlsson at the Polo Luxury Penthouse in Victoria Island, Lagos. It was her first official entry into the Nigerian market, and Polo Avenue, Nigeria’s leading fashion luxury retailer, is the exclusive partner bringing her world-renowned eyewear to Africa. The event brought together editors, stylists and fashion lovers for an intimate conversation about craftsmanship, creativity, heritage and the growt
  • Everyone Wants Closure, But What Does It Actually Mean in a Relationship? 

    Love is sweet, breakups are bitter, moving on is messy, but healing is important. For many, a breakup without closure leaves them replaying memories, questioning themselves, and wondering if they’ll ever truly move on. That nagging feeling in your chest? The one that keeps you awake at night, either turning ‘eba’ (garri), binge-watching movies or posting sad quotes on your stories…that’s the absence of closure.
    Closure is a deep, emotional resolution that allo
  • If You Missed Aké 2025, Here’s Everything We Are Taking Home

    Aké Arts & Book Festival has always felt like a living, breathing space. A place where stories walk around as people, and conversations come alive. This year, the festival returned with its 13th edition under the theme “Reclaiming Truth,” and from the very first hour, that theme sat boldly at the centre of everything.Even though I streamed Day One virtually and attended the remaining days in person, the energy was the same on both sides of the screen. It was intentional, e
  • The Singleton Escapes: A Signature Invitation to Slow Down and Savour the Art of the Moment, Starting November 28th

    Premium single malt whisky, The Singleton, is set to host its most exclusive and immersive event yet: 'The Singleton Escapes: Passport to Serenity.' This event will take place in Lagos on November 28th, 2025, this experience is a cultural invitation to bask in the Moment and discover how to Savour the Single Moment. The Singleton recognises that living fully isn't about countless experiences, but about deeply luxuriating in the Single Moment. This private event will bring together Nigeria&r
  • What Is an Open Relationship? A Guide to Understanding Open Relationships

    Open relationships are often misunderstood, which can lead to confusion or mistaken beliefs about how they work and what they're about. Essentially, in an open relationship, the people involved agree that they can have romantic or sexual relationships with other people while still keeping their primary bond with each other. For the people who engage in an open relationship, this setup can be rewarding, giving people the chance to explore their desires and form connections outside the u
  • So… What Exactly Is an Open Relationship? Let’s Break It Down

    Open relationships are often misunderstood, which can lead to confusion or mistaken beliefs about how they work and what they're about. Essentially, in an open relationship, the people involved agree that they can have romantic or sexual relationships with other people while still keeping their primary bond with each other. For the people who engage in an open relationship, this setup can be rewarding, giving people the chance to explore their desires and form connections outside the u
  • What Causes Beard Dandruff and How to Get Rid of It for Good

    You are probably familiar with dandruff when it appears on the scalp. It’s a common condition, usually characterised by itchy and flaking skin. But ‌just as you can get dry, flaky skin on your scalp, it is possible to get dandruff in your beard.
    Dandruff in beards is a common problem that many men overlook. It causes itchiness, discomfort, and flakes. Though it is merely a cosmetic issue, beard dandruff could signal an underlying skin issue, and so understanding the causes and effecti
  • From Bouncy Castles to Santa’s Grotto: L’Amour Christmas Kids Festival Promises Unforgettable Holiday Fun

    This December, L’amour Events, a leading event curator, is making sure the holidays are not just for the grown-ups because the kids will be outside, too! The L’amour Christmas Kids Festival is back and filling Lagos Preparatory School, Ikoyi, with laughter, games, and unforgettable moments from December 23rd to 26th. From 10 am to 8 pm, children aged 0-16 will experience a wonderland brimming with festive cheer, adventure, and endless fun. Every child in attendance will get to explor
  • “Readiness Is Not a Destination”: Bella Disu’s Tedx Talk Invites Us to Confront Hesitation and Begin

    Bella Disu’s TEDx Ikoyi talk, “Say Yes Now: Why Readiness is a Myth,” is resonating widely for its clarity and emotional honesty – not because it targets one group, but because it speaks to something universal: we hesitate at the very moment we need to move.In the talk, she reflects on the quiet weight of waiting – the belief that one more milestone, one more qualification, or one perfect condition is needed before taking a step. Psychologists call this destination
  • Top 7 Perfume Gifts Under ₦100,000 for Christmas

    Christmas is around the corner, and if you want to give someone a gift that feels personal, luxurious, and memorable, perfume is always a winning choice. The good news? You don’t have to spend a fortune to get something that smells amazing.Whether you’re shopping for your girlfriend, wife, mum, sister, or even yourself (because why not?), here are seven perfume gifts under ₦100k that will make anyone smile this festive season.Let’s get into it. 1. Beguile Discovery Set &n
  • Priscilla Ojo, Omoni Oboli & More Attend BOZ’s Ultra-Exclusive ‘Love & Boz Circle – Privé’ Experience

    On Sunday, 16th November, BOZ Diamond hosted an intimate, quietly luxurious evening for its most cherished clients at the Love & Boz Circle - Privé, a private gathering that celebrated loyalty, artistry, and the timeless stories behind every BOZ creation. The exclusive event, led by BOZ founder Sherifat Mohammed, welcomed a curated guest list including award-winning actress and filmmaker Omoni Oboli, style sensation Priscilla Ojo, and entrepreneur Akin Faminu, among other distinguishe
  • The Gentle Art of Guiding Your Partner Through Sex (Without Killing the Mood)

    You’re in the moment. Things are heating up, but you’re not exactly feeling it. You are thinking, "I wish they’d go a little slower," or "Right there, oh my god, don’t move… but what if they do?"Your mind races. You are also scared of talking because you feel like you could ruin the moment. I’ve had someone tell me certain phrases excite them so much that they feel a sudden surge of energy to perform even better in bed. This is not dirty talking, but I daresa
  • 10 Everyday Items Nigerians Call by the Wrong Brand Name

    In Nigeria, certain brands have become so embedded in daily life that their names are often used to describe entire product categories. This phenomenon, known as “genericide” in business, typically occurs when a brand is a market pioneer or dominates its sector so thoroughly that consumers forget the actual name of the product. Nigeria, Africa’s largest economy and most populous nation, presents a highly competitive consumer market. Thousands of products jostle for attention, y
  • How to Make Rose Water: Simple DIY Method for Fresh, Natural Rose Water

    At some point, rose water did seem like just another beauty trend, yes, but it’s actually surprisingly useful. If you’ve used it, you know how refreshing and soothing it can feel. If you haven’t, imagine a simple, natural way to hydrate your skin, add a soft floral scent to your hair, and the same scent to your room, and bring a little natural calm into your day.The good part is you don’t need to hunt down expensive bottles or worry about hidden chemicals. All you need ar
  • The Quiet Marriage Arrangement: Unpacking The Truth About Lavender Marriages

    You’ve heard of monogamy, polyandry (a woman with multiple husbands), polygamy (a man with multiple wives), open marriages and Polyamory. Now, you’ve seen ‘lavender marriage’ floating around on TikTok or heard it in casual conversations and wondered what it means. If you’ve watched House of the Dragon and Another Simple Favour, then you have an idea what a lavender marriage is. The relationship between Dante (Michele Morrone) and Emily (Blake Lively) is a perfe
  • 7 Terrorism Offences Nnamdi Kanu Was Convicted For: Full List

    The Federal High Court in Abuja has convicted Nnamdi Kanu, leader of the proscribed Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB), on all seven terrorism-related charges filed against him by the Federal Government. Justice James Omotosho delivered the judgment on Thursday, November 20th, after finding Kanu guilty of leading a proscribed organisation, inciting violence, and issuing threats that resulted in loss of life, destruction of property, and disruption of socio-economic activities across states. The
  • Jess  Martinez Has A Guinness  World  Record for The World's Largest Afro

    New York‑based criminal‑justice advocate and content‑creator Jess Martinez has officially achieved the title of world’s largest afro (female‑living), as recognised by the Guinness World Records (GWR). Jess is the second woman to ever earn this title, following in the footsteps of Aevin Dugas. Dugas originally set the record in 2010, and by 2025, she had become a Guinness World Records ICON for her work promoting body positivity and natural hair acceptance
  • Miss Universe 2025: Mexico’s Fatima Bosch Wins the Crown After a Drama-Filled Season

    The 74th Miss Universe competition has officially come to an end, and after weeks of global buzz, emotional moments, and headline-making chaos, Mexico’s Fatima Bosch has emerged as the new Miss Universe 2025.  Nigeria’s representative, Onyinyechi Basil, competed at this year’s pageant, and now we finally have the full picture of how the competition played out. From backstage confrontations to judges resigning and political tensions spilling onto the runway, this year&rsquo
  • Omah Lay’s Biography: From Small Gigs in Port Harcourt to Sold-Out International Tours

    Omah Lay’s voice has once been described as ‘darkly sparkling’. There’s something deeply intimate and soothing about his voice, so when you first hear it, you feel like he’s speaking to your heart. But behind those slow-burning melodies lies a story of grit, healing, and perseverance.  Who is Omah Lay? Born Stanley Omah Didia on 19 May 1997, in Port Harcourt, Rivers State, Omah Lay is one of Nigeria’s most influential Afro-fusion and Afrobeats artists.&nb
  • Miss Universe 2025: The African Queens Making Their Mark on the Global Stage

    As the 74th edition of Miss Universe 2025 takes centre stage in Bangkok, eyes are on the contestants of African delegates who bring their nations' stories, cultures, and ambitions onto the global platform. From community advocates to academics to entrepreneurs, they prove that beauty pageants are just as much about leadership and influence as they are about poise. This year, from Nigeria to Zimbabwe, Africa's representation stands not only for glamour but for change, inspiration, and identi
  • 10 Songs That Make Nigerian Weddings Feel Extra Special

    There might be no perfect wedding, but there are definitely songs perfect for weddings. No matter how magical a wedding is, the décor, the food or the venue, one thing sets the tone for the entire celebration, and it is the music.The mood and feel of a wedding depend largely on the songs that are being played or performed. Whether it is international chart-toppers or home-grown classics, some songs just fit perfectly into love stories. They have become staples in playlists, soundtracks to
  • What “Costume Art” Could Look Like on the Met Gala 2026 Red Carpet

    The Met Gala is one of the most anticipated events in the world of fashion, and the theme for next year is on for the books. The theme "Costume Art" is inspired by the Metropolitan Museum of Art's vast collection and the connection between clothing and the human form; the 2026 Met Gala will take place on May 4. Running from 10 May 2026, to January 10, 2027, the exhibition will present historical and contemporary garments alongside sculptures, paintings, and objects spanning five centuries.Histor
  • How to Pick Between Japanese and Korean Skincare Without Confusion

    For the past few years, everyone, including your favourite TikTok creator, your best friend with perfect skin, and even that “clean girl” you follow for aesthetic inspo, has been obsessed with Korean and Japanese skincare.  The global beauty world is moving away from harsh scrubs, stinging toners, and actives that feel like chemical warfare on your face. Instead, people want gentle, science-backed formulas that keep their skin healthy for the long run, and East Asian beauty has
  • Crochet Hairstyles Are the Protective Style Everyone’s Obsessed With in 2025

    Crochet hairstyles have always been in vogue, but they are the new trends taking over social media at the moment. On TikTok, every fashion and beauty creator seems to be teaching you how to install curly crochet hair yourself or how to maintain it. The hype is worth it. Crochet hairstyles are protective styles that don’t take forever to install, are affordable, are easy to maintain, and are super stylish. They let you switch up your look without damaging your natural hair. From c
  • How to Change Your Name After Marriage in Nigeria: A Complete Step-by-Step Guide

    Changing your name after marriage is a deeply personal decision for many Nigerian women who want their legal documents to reflect their new marital status. However, a change of name applies not only to marriage or women alone.Either as a man or a woman, you can change your name for personal reasons, such as adopting a child, professional demands, or a change in religion and so on. But while the choice may be simple, the process can feel overwhelming, especially since you have to deal with banks,
  • Nigeria’s Onyinyechi Basil Is Owning Her Miss Universe 2025 Moment

    Beauty pageants may have started as glitzy showcases of gowns and bright smiles, but over the decades, they’ve grown into something much bigger.  Since its debut in 1951, Miss Universe has transformed into an event where smart, ambitious women represent their countries with heart, purpose, and a whole lot of sparkle. This year, Nigeria’s voice belongs to Onyinyechi Basil. Nigeria’s New Queen Steps Forward The road to Miss Universe is famously tough, but Onyinyechi made it
  • How to Get Rid of Ingrown Hair: Simple, Safe, and Effective Tips That Work

    Many people deal with ingrown hairs on the legs, armpits, bikini line, chin, neck, and even the stomach. If you shave, wax, tweeze, thread, or use hair-removal creams, chances are you’ve experienced it too. The good thing is, Ingrown hair can be treated at home, and with the right habits, you can prevent it from coming back. This guide explains how to remove ingrown hairs safely, treat the bumps, and avoid future irritation in a simple, practical way. What Exactly Is Ingrown Hair? An ingro
  • 13 Things You Should Never Share With Your Coworkers (Even If You Call Them Your Bestie)

    Have you ever worked in a place where everyone is warm and friendly, like one big family? Me too. They’re your go-to for lunch breaks, the person you gossip with in the Slack DMs, and the first one to hear your post-meeting vent. This camaraderie can make the 9-to-5 grind feel less like, well, a grind.But the reality is that the office is a professional minefield. It’s easy to confuse a "work friend" with a "true friend", and that mistake can negatively impact your credibility, drag
  • 10 Love Songs to Tell Him He’s Loved, Safe, and Chosen

    In a world that expects men to be strong and in control, love is a gentle refuge. In this place, he gets to be vulnerable, held, and seen. And sometimes, this is why we have music, to help say the things we struggle to articulate. The right song can reassure him, remind him he is valued, and let him know that he is not just loved, but chosen.Yes, women want reassurance and emotional safety, but men need it too. The problem is that many of them don’t know how to ask for it. They also crave
  • How to Set Healthy Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty

    Healthy boundaries set the precedent on how you are perceived and treated within a relationship, workplace, family, and friendship. In one of her articles, Oge wrote that people will treat you the way you want to be treated. This means if you want to be treated well, then you ought to set boundaries not just for others not to cross, but for yourself too. There’s a special kind of exhaustion that comes from being everybody’s “go-to person”.  One minute you’
  • What Does Salicylic Acid Do? A Complete Guide for Your Skin

    If you’re here, chances are your skin might be sending you an SOS signal using a tirade of clogged pores, unexpected breakouts, or a shiny T-zone that is just refusing to chill. That or, you’re just curious.Enter salicylic acid, a skincare ingredient that’s been saving oily and acne-prone skin for decades and is always involved in the conversation whenever skincare is mentioned. We have face washes, serums; it’s one of the most popular beta hydroxy acids (BHAs) in skincar
  • Fans Defend Ayra Starr After AI Nude Edit Goes Viral

    Fans rush to defend Ayra Starr after an AI-generated nude image of the Nigerian singer goes viral. The account was suspended following swift reporting, sparking discussions on online harassment and digital ethics. Ayra Starr, the 23-year-old Mavin Records star known for hits like Rush and Hot Body, faced an unsettling online attack this week. On November 17, she posted a series of photos of herself, which a user then quoted and used AI to create a false, explicit image of the singer. The AI
  • Platonic Relationships Explained: Can Men and Women Truly Be ‘Just Friends’?

    People often equate closeness between men and women with romance, and it’s not hard to see why. But what if a deep connection exists without any romantic or sexual undertones? That’s where platonic relationships come in. What a Platonic Relationship Actually Is A platonic relationship is a deep bond between two people without romantic or sexual involvement. The term originates from the Greek philosopher Plato, who described love focused on intellectual and emotional connection rather
  • How to Find the ‘Sisi’ in You Again

    When Kehinde Bankole (Adire) drops the line “Find the ‘sisi’ in you again” in Adire, a 2023 Nigerian film directed by Adeoluwa Owu, you feel it. The surge in you to come alive again. To be whole, seductive in the way life meant you to be. It’s equal to the feeling you get after listening to a motivational speaker. Life happens to us in different measures, some more intense and maddening than others. But the effect is general. You feel burnt out, like a stranger
  • How to Make Your Hair Grow Faster: What Works and What Doesn't

    Trying to make your hair grow faster will make you try varieties of solutions, from rice water to trims, “miracle” oils, homemade hair growth treatments that smell like herbal sacrifices and shampoos that claim to speed up hair growth. Yet the inches refuse to inch. It’s another special kind of heartbreak when you take down a protective style, stretch your hair, check the length, and it’s still looking the same as the last time. If you’ve ever stared at yo
  • Inside the 2026 Met Gala Theme: “Costume Art” and Fashion’s New Era

    Every year, as the first Monday in May draws near, the world collectively leans in. Fashion critics sharpen their pencils, celebrity watchers brew their tea, and the internet prepares its memes because the Met Gala is coming.  The Met Gala has brought us so many iconic fashion moments. I think back to Rihanna gliding up the stairs at Met Gala 2015, in that unforgettable canary-yellow Guo Pei creation, or Cardi B shutting down Met Gala 2019 in vintage Mugler and enough pearls to make Poseido
  • Career Reinvention: How to Pivot Without Starting Over

    Changing careers doesn’t always mean throwing everything away and beginning from scratch. In fact, many professionals today are redefining what career growth looks like by swapping titles, industries, and even passions without losing the value of their experience.If you’ve been feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or curious about a new path, here’s how to make the shift confidently without starting over. 1. Redefine your “career capital” Career capital is the collection of
  • These Are the Love Songs Women Actually Want to Hear

    Love can be too great or extreme to be expressed or described in words, yet sometimes a song can articulate feelings that words alone cannot. Women crave love that is sincere, affirming, and present. And the right song can echo what they long to hear, what they hope to feel, and what they secretly wish someone would express. While charts and streaming numbers capture popularity, the songs women truly hold dear do more than entertain. They validate, inspire, and reflect emotional truth. In creati
  • 7 Things Women Don’t Want to See Men Wearing Anymore, Ever

    As much as fashion trends come and go, certain ones should be left behind forever. They don’t need to be recycled, nor do they need to be upcycled; they should just quietly retire and never be spoken of again. According to the 10 women I talked to, men are the biggest culprits when it comes to holding onto fashion trends that really need to be a thing of the past.To be clear, no one is asking men to become runway models overnight. This is not an attack. This is a public service announcemen
  • 5 Reasons You're Tired Even Though You're Eating Healthy

    You're eating clean. You're choosing whole foods, drinking more water, cutting back on sugar… yet you still feel exhausted by midday. It's frustrating and confusing, because you're doing "everything right."But even on healthy diets, fatigue is more common than you might think. That's because food isn't the only factor determining how much energy you have. Hormones, sleep quality, nutrient absorption, stress, and even meal structuring all play critical roles.If you're tired of feeling tire
  • Best Braids for Men and How to Choose Your Style

    Braids on men used to be frowned upon, but welcome to the 21st century! Old doctrines have passed away, and new ones are taking root. Everywhere you turn, there’s a young man with braided hair and sometimes, perfectly accessorised with piercings to match. With the new norm, it can be overwhelming to choose from a vast number of hairstyles, from Travis Scott braids to cornrows. There are also issues of choosing the style that best suits your face and maintaining your braids. Here&
  • Does a Gas Cylinder Expire? Here's How To Check Yours

    Many people mistakenly believe a gas cylinder can be used indefinitely, but in reality, cylinders do expire. Over time, the steel can weaken, corrode, or suffer damage from pressure, heat, or mishandling, making it unsafe. That’s why Liquefied Petroleum Gas (LPG) cylinders have a recommended lifespan and must undergo periodic safety inspections to ensure they remain fit for use. Knowing how to check the expiry date of your gas cylinder is crucial for the safety of your home, workplace, and
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