<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title><![CDATA[Youth & Parenting - Newslocker]]></title><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/</link><atom:link rel="self" href="https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/rss/1000/" /><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" /><description><![CDATA[Find your latest Youth & Parenting news with just one click. Don't miss out on anything happening!]]></description><language>en-au</language><copyright>Copyright (C) 2026 newslocker.com</copyright><lastBuildDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 14:00:00 +0100</lastBuildDate><item><title><![CDATA[You’re invited: Connect with your community in Heidelberg West]]></title><description><![CDATA[On Monday 27 March, the Mall in Heidelberg West will be buzzing with stories and fun activities, as the community celebrates Neighbour Day in the Harmony Centre.<br />
Relationships Australia Victoria and Banyule City Council invite seniors, their families, friends and neighbours to enjoy a complimentary morning tea, a live music performance, and engage in activities where you can share stories and reminisce.<br />
If you know an older person who might enjoy the event, ask them to come along or help them at]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/youre-invited-connect-with-your-community-in-heidelberg-west/</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/youre-invited-connect-with-your-community-in-heidelberg-west/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Neighbour Day is almost here!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Australia&rsquo;s annual celebration of community is coming to your neighbourhood on Sunday 26 March.<br />
Neighbour Day encourages you to connect with others who live in your neighbourhood. Whether it&rsquo;s a cuppa, a picnic in the park, a street party, or a simple message of support, Neighbour Day is the perfect opportunity for your community to come together.<br />
This year, the theme is The importance of social connection for the elderly. Social exclusion and loneliness are detrimental to mental and]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/neighbour-day-is-almost-here/</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/neighbour-day-is-almost-here/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Learn Collaborative Couple Therapy from its creator, Dan Wile]]></title><description><![CDATA[We&rsquo;re excited to welcome clinical psychologist Dan Wile to Australia.<br />
Hailed as a &ldquo;genius and the greatest living marital therapist&rdquo; by Dr John Gottman, Dan will be presenting a two-day workshop on Collaborative Couple Therapy &ndash; a unique model for therapists to move couples beyond a spiral of alienation and into a cycle of connection.<br />
Limited places available. Find out more and register your place here.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/learn-collaborative-couple-therapy-from-its-creator-dan-wile/</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2017 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/learn-collaborative-couple-therapy-from-its-creator-dan-wile/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Support for women leaving a violent relationship]]></title><description><![CDATA[A new edition of Safe from Violence is now available. Safe from violence is designed to help women to understand the nature of violence in relationships and to guide women who are separating or leaving a violent relationship.<br />
It includes new chapters on different kinds of family violence, safety and technology, and details of support available to those experiencing family violence.<br />
Read it by clicking here.<br />
&nbsp;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/support-for-women-leaving-a-violent-relationship/</link><pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2017 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/support-for-women-leaving-a-violent-relationship/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Beating the back to school blues]]></title><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;If you or your child is struggling with routine before school starts here are some practical ideas to help.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/beating-the-back-to-school-blues/</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2017 06:18:50 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/beating-the-back-to-school-blues/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[12 ways to parent differently in 2017]]></title><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;How will you parent differently in 2017? Will this year be more of the same?]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/12-ways-to-parent-differently-in-2017/</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2017 01:33:20 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/12-ways-to-parent-differently-in-2017/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are you singing from the same parenting song sheet?]]></title><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/are-you-singing-from-the-same-parenting-song-sheet/</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2016 06:26:52 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/are-you-singing-from-the-same-parenting-song-sheet/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to turn requests into problems for kids to solve]]></title><description><![CDATA[Solving children's problems for them only increases their dependence on parents. Here's how to teach children to solve their own problems and develop confidence and independence in the process.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-turn-requests-into-problems-for-kids-to-solve/</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2016 05:43:18 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-turn-requests-into-problems-for-kids-to-solve/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[It starts with respect]]></title><description><![CDATA[As parents we have an incredible power to shape positively children&rsquo;s attitudes and behaviours, including how they treat others. &nbsp;Here are three ideas and attitude of respect at home:]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/it-starts-with-respect/</link><pubDate>Mon, 01 Aug 2016 06:41:47 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/it-starts-with-respect/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Has your child gone Pokemon wild?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Pokemon Go is designed for adults and adolescents, but it's becoming an obsession shared by all age groups including children. If you're currently scratching your head about the best approach to take as a parent then here are some ideas to get you started.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/has-your-child-gone-pokemon-wild/</link><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2016 06:51:20 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/has-your-child-gone-pokemon-wild/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teach kids to think before they jump to conclusions]]></title><description><![CDATA[Some kids act impulsively when things don't go their way. Others will escalate their emotional response to the point that this is 'the worst thing ever'. Parents can show kids that there is a better way to respond to negative situations.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-think-before-they-jump-to-conclusions-2/</link><pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2016 13:24:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-think-before-they-jump-to-conclusions-2/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Help kids tap into their capacity to be nice]]></title><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;One of the jobs of parents is to help kids tap into their capacity to be kind, to be helpful and to be generous to others.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/help-kids-tap-into-their-capacity-to-be-nice/</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2016 09:21:25 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/help-kids-tap-into-their-capacity-to-be-nice/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Five ways to get teens to listen]]></title><description><![CDATA[Getting on the same page with young people is a challenge for many parents. Often they&rsquo;ll listen to their friends, and even their friends&rsquo; parents, before they listen to their own parents.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/five-ways-to-get-teens-to-listen/</link><pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2016 03:40:45 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/five-ways-to-get-teens-to-listen/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Talk to the chair]]></title><description><![CDATA[I heard a great story recently that reflected some very smart parenting.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/talk-to-the-chair/</link><pubDate>Sun, 10 Apr 2016 13:04:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/talk-to-the-chair/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Children’s birthday parties – cause for celebration or alienation?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Helping kids manage the disappointment of missing out on a friend's birthday party invitation can be a pressing concern for parents of primary-aged kids. However, it's a real teachable moment for helping kids deal with rejection and disappointment, and on the flipside, for parents to teach kids how to issue invitations with sensitivity.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/childrens-birthday-parties-cause-for-celebration-or-alienation/</link><pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2016 03:42:38 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/childrens-birthday-parties-cause-for-celebration-or-alienation/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Children's birthday parties &ndash; cause for celebration or alienation?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Helping kids manage the disappointment of missing out on a friend's birthday party invitation can be a pressing concern for parents of primary-aged kids. However, it's a real teachable moment for helping kids deal with rejection and disappointment, and on the flipside, for parents to teach kids how to issue invitations with sensitivity.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/childrens-birthday-parties-ndash-cause-for-celebration-or-alienation/</link><pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2016 01:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/childrens-birthday-parties-ndash-cause-for-celebration-or-alienation/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parent-teacher meetings - 10 top tips for parents]]></title><description><![CDATA[Start of year parent-teacher meetings or interviews are a great opportunity not only to meet your child's teacher for the year, but to establish a positive parent-school partnership. Here's 10 tips for parents to maximise this valuable opportunity.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parent-teacher-meetings-10-top-tips-for-parents/</link><pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2016 03:11:30 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parent-teacher-meetings-10-top-tips-for-parents/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Daddy (or Mummy) of all parenting skills]]></title><description><![CDATA[So what is the one essential skill that is paramount for parent effectiveness but so often overlooked? The ability to manage yor reactivity. So how do you do this when your kids are pushing all your buttons?]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-daddy-or-mummy-of-all-parenting-skills/</link><pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2016 14:01:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-daddy-or-mummy-of-all-parenting-skills/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Five ways to know you are over-parenting]]></title><description><![CDATA[Over-parenting, or helicopter parenting, is a hot topic right now. But how do you know if you are over-parenting? Here's a checklist of 5 ways parents can over-parent, and suggestions for how to step back and give kids the independence and opportunity to develop the life skills they need to be happy, resilient young people.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/five-ways-to-know-you-are-over-parenting/</link><pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2016 03:30:34 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/five-ways-to-know-you-are-over-parenting/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teach kids to think before they jump... to conclusions.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Some kids act impulsively when things don't go their way. Others will escalate their emotional response to the point that this is 'the worst thing ever'. Parents can show kids that there is a better way to respond to negative situations.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-think-before-they-jump-to-conclusions/</link><pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2016 11:49:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-think-before-they-jump-to-conclusions/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teach kids to think before they jump..............to conclusions.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Some kids act impulsively when things don't go their way. Others will escalate their emotional response to the point that this is 'the worst thing ever'. Parents can show kids that there is a better way to respond to negative situations.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-think-before-they-jumpto-conclusions/</link><pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2016 01:24:21 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-think-before-they-jumpto-conclusions/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who relies on your child?]]></title><description><![CDATA[I&rsquo;m often asked by parents how to develop responsibility in kids.&nbsp; The answer is simple &ndash; give responsibility to them! Let them feed the family pet, empty the dishwasher, clean up the living area at the end of the day.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/who-relies-on-your-child/</link><pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2016 01:46:33 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/who-relies-on-your-child/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teach kids to ask for what they want]]></title><description><![CDATA[Helping kids to communicate their wants, needs and aspirations is a basic task for parents. Some kids whinge, nag or go quiet, when&nbsp;a simple articulated request for assistance is all that's needed.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-ask-for-what-they-want/</link><pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2016 02:55:42 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teach-kids-to-ask-for-what-they-want/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[This is the No.1 strategy to build a happy, strong family]]></title><description><![CDATA[Building a happy, strong family is easier than most people think. There is one strategy that if you do regularly will help you build a rock solid family regardless of family size, culture or circumstance.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/this-is-the-no1-strategy-to-build-a-happy-strong-family/</link><pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2016 05:57:49 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/this-is-the-no1-strategy-to-build-a-happy-strong-family/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[10 of the BEST parenting ideas for 2016]]></title><description><![CDATA[MICHAEL GROSE &nbsp;These 10 HOT ideas will help you bring out the best in your kids in 2016.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/10-of-the-best-parenting-ideas-for-2016/</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2016 15:44:36 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/10-of-the-best-parenting-ideas-for-2016/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The definition of good parenting]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here's what good parenting look like. It's simpler than people think]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-definition-of-good-parenting/</link><pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2015 10:01:43 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-definition-of-good-parenting/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Develop a growth mindset in your child]]></title><description><![CDATA[The smartest thing a parent can do is to develop a growth mindset in their kids. That way, they can reap the benefits of a plastic brain over their lifetime rather than be held back by self-limiting beliefs.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/develop-a-growth-mindset-in-your-child/</link><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2015 07:20:25 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/develop-a-growth-mindset-in-your-child/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Keep Primary School Graduations Limo FREE (Say NO to a stretch limo for your child’s primary school graduation.)]]></title><description><![CDATA[The primary school graduation should be a night that brings kids together to honour their primary school years and honour the teachers and friends that they shared this brief, formative journey with. Taking a stretch limo is a narcissistic act that says to everyone, &lsquo;Hey! Look at me! I&rsquo;m pretty cool/rad/mature because I&rsquo;m acting older than I really am.&rsquo; It immediately places a child in a group separate from those who don&rsquo;t come in a stretch limo.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/keep-primary-school-graduations-limo-free-say-no-to-a-stretch-limo-for-your-childs-primary-school-graduation/</link><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2015 01:01:11 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/keep-primary-school-graduations-limo-free-say-no-to-a-stretch-limo-for-your-childs-primary-school-graduation/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to keep your teenager safe during Schoolies Week - pre-load them with info &amp; tips]]></title><description><![CDATA[As teenagers get ready to celebrate the end of their schooling and kick up their heels for Schoolies Week, now is the time to have important conversations about staying safe.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-keep-your-teenager-safe-during-schoolies-week-pre-load-them-with-info-amp-tips/</link><pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2015 15:56:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-keep-your-teenager-safe-during-schoolies-week-pre-load-them-with-info-amp-tips/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to keep your teenager safe during Schoolies Week]]></title><description><![CDATA[As teenagers get ready to celebrate the end of their schooling and kick up their heels for Schoolies Week, now is the time to have important conversations about staying safe.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-keep-your-teenager-safe-during-schoolies-week/</link><pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2015 15:56:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-keep-your-teenager-safe-during-schoolies-week/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[20 Behaviours even the Best Parents Need to Stop]]></title><description><![CDATA[There's a lot of advice out there telling parents what to do, so what are the things we need to Stop doing as parents?]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/20-behaviours-even-the-best-parents-need-to-stop/</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2015 22:58:43 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/20-behaviours-even-the-best-parents-need-to-stop/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[15 lessons of experience for parenting success]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here are 15 immuntable truths you need to come to grips with if you are going to work towards parenting success.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/15-lessons-of-experience-for-parenting-success/</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2015 04:59:47 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/15-lessons-of-experience-for-parenting-success/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Hey Mum! Calm down will you!]]></title><description><![CDATA[So often our best parenting intentions are derailed by our inability to regulate our emotions. We blame our kids for their poor, thoughtless or challenging behaviour but it&rsquo;s our emotions that let us down, derailing our best intentions. Here's how you can learn to manage these emotions.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/hey-mum-calm-down-will-you/</link><pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2015 05:35:23 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/hey-mum-calm-down-will-you/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Do your parenting intentions live up to your parenting reality?]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's not easy living up to our intentions of calm, loving, steady parenting when we are in the hurly burly of busy family life. But there's a tool that can help you regulate your emotions and manage tricky family situations.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/do-your-parenting-intentions-live-up-to-your-parenting-reality/</link><pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2015 10:17:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/do-your-parenting-intentions-live-up-to-your-parenting-reality/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Meta Moment- helping you be at your parenting BEST]]></title><description><![CDATA[Stay calm when your kids annoy you by using a Meta-Moment - a high level parenting tool developed by the team from the Yale Centre for Emotional Intelligence.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/meta-moment-helping-you-be-at-your-parenting-best/</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2015 09:30:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/meta-moment-helping-you-be-at-your-parenting-best/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Take a Meta-Moment to be your Parenting Best]]></title><description><![CDATA[Emotions often let us down just when we need to be at our parenting best. This brilliant process may well be the difference between losing your cool and collecting your thoughts and your wits when emotions run high in your family.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/take-a-meta-moment-to-be-your-parenting-best/</link><pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2015 08:35:50 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/take-a-meta-moment-to-be-your-parenting-best/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Choose your child's name wisely]]></title><description><![CDATA[Names last a lifetime so it&rsquo;s worth thinking carefully about the names we lumber our children with. They define their social status; may well influence their future incomes and could mean a lifetime of derision.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/choose-your-childs-name-wisely/</link><pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2015 05:40:52 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/choose-your-childs-name-wisely/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Take a Meta-Moment]]></title><description><![CDATA[Effective emotional regulation is essential for success in all areas of life, but even more so to succeed in the hurly-urly of modern parenting.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/take-a-meta-moment/</link><pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2015 10:54:18 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/take-a-meta-moment/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parenting an Only Child Tip # 2 Leave some problems for them to solve]]></title><description><![CDATA[An Only child benefits from having an opportunity to resolve their own challenges and difficulties rather than parents solving them for them.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parenting-an-only-child-tip-2-leave-some-problems-for-them-to-solve/</link><pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2015 07:00:41 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parenting-an-only-child-tip-2-leave-some-problems-for-them-to-solve/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parenting an Only Child Tip # 1 Leave some problems for them to solve]]></title><description><![CDATA[Only children benefit from having opportunities to resolve their own challenges and difficulties rather than parents solving them for them]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parenting-an-only-child-tip-1-leave-some-problems-for-them-to-solve/</link><pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2015 05:24:37 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parenting-an-only-child-tip-1-leave-some-problems-for-them-to-solve/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How dads can best support their children's sporting interest]]></title><description><![CDATA[A father can be make or break whether his children play sport or not depending on his attitude to their performance. Here's how dads should support their children's efforts in sport if he wants them to stay involved.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-dads-can-best-support-their-childrens-sporting-interest/</link><pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2015 17:36:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-dads-can-best-support-their-childrens-sporting-interest/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parenting an Only Child Tip #1 It's good to share!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Sharing is an important friendship skill all children should learn. Parents of only children are well placed to develop the sharing habit in their children by being creative and making the most of every day sharing opportunities&nbsp;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parenting-an-only-child-tip-1-its-good-to-share/</link><pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2015 12:32:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/parenting-an-only-child-tip-1-its-good-to-share/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Test your emotional vocabulary]]></title><description><![CDATA[How many ways can you say 'anxious'? The bigger your emotional vocabulary the better position you are in to manage and shift your emotions.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/test-your-emotional-vocabulary/</link><pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2015 14:33:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/test-your-emotional-vocabulary/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[8 reasons why every parent should use the Mood Meter]]></title><description><![CDATA[The Mood Meter is a wonderful tool that every smart parent should have in their parenting toolkit.&nbsp;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/8-reasons-why-every-parent-should-use-the-mood-meter/</link><pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2015 11:49:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/8-reasons-why-every-parent-should-use-the-mood-meter/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Manage like a cat, nurture like a dog]]></title><description><![CDATA[Teenagers need a mix a firmness and nurturance but giving both can be tricky. Here's a magic way to make sure you give teens exactly what they need from you]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/manage-like-a-cat-nurture-like-a-dog/</link><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2015 16:13:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/manage-like-a-cat-nurture-like-a-dog/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The curse of the eldest child]]></title><description><![CDATA[Of all birth order positions being born first carries plenty of privileges but it also presents plenty of problems too. Do the problems outweigh the privileges?]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-curse-of-the-eldest-child/</link><pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2015 16:02:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-curse-of-the-eldest-child/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to know you're getting expert parenting advice, or not!]]></title><description><![CDATA[You wouldn't get legal advice from an amatuer, and you shouldn't get parenting advice from a novice. There's a lot of novices dispensing parenting advice online right now that you should be concerned. Here's a quick guide to help you sort the parenting hay from the chaff.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-know-youre-getting-expert-parenting-advice-or-not/</link><pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2015 16:59:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-know-youre-getting-expert-parenting-advice-or-not/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to determine your child's digital diet]]></title><description><![CDATA[Young children are becoming hooked on their parents' IPads, IPhones and other digital devices to the detriment of their language and intellectual development. These common sense guidelines will help.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-determine-your-childs-digital-diet/</link><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2015 16:07:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-determine-your-childs-digital-diet/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Michael Grose's 15 Favorite Parenting Quotes]]></title><description><![CDATA[Great quotes should be shared so that ideas and wisdom spreads. Here are 15 of the best parenting quotes that are definitely worth sharing]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/michael-groses-15-favorite-parenting-quotes/</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2015 15:27:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/michael-groses-15-favorite-parenting-quotes/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to help kids manage their feelings]]></title><description><![CDATA[Parents often feel uncomfortable dealing with children's feelings. The netherworld of emotions comes alive in the movie Inside Out, as parents grapple with this alien landscape of feelings. It's an exciting, brave new world that just maybe a generation-changer.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-help-kids-manage-their-feelings/</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2015 12:13:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-help-kids-manage-their-feelings/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teenagers – independence vs boundaries]]></title><description><![CDATA[By Jodi Benveniste.<br />
Photo by Petra via Flickr<br />
Do you remember being a teenager? It&rsquo;s an intense time! There&rsquo;s a heady mix of excitement at being more independent and grown up but also so much uncertainty and insecurity because we&rsquo;re not yet sure of who we are and our place in the world.<br />
It&rsquo;s a very challenging developmental stage. Our teenagers are no longer children, but they&rsquo;re not yet adults.<br />
They need more freedom to be independent and take responsibilities. But]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teenagers-independence-vs-boundaries/</link><pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2015 14:15:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teenagers-independence-vs-boundaries/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Raise only-children to be smart and social]]></title><description><![CDATA[It&rsquo;s often thought that children, especially only-children, who spend a great deal of time alone aren&rsquo;t socially able. But the research doesn&rsquo;t stack up in support of this notion.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/raise-only-children-to-be-smart-and-social/</link><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2015 14:42:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/raise-only-children-to-be-smart-and-social/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Say NO WAY to Smacking]]></title><description><![CDATA[Discipline is an important part of the parenting process, but it doesn't need to include corporal punishment. There are plenty of effective alternatives to smacking, and they don't come with negative side effects including resentment and possibly, bullying.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/say-no-way-to-smacking/</link><pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2015 15:02:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/say-no-way-to-smacking/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Emotional labour]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's the emotional labour that parents do that makes it such hard work, but it's essential if we are going to be effective.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/emotional-labour/</link><pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2015 14:51:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/emotional-labour/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Aussie software helping teens get more out of their screen time]]></title><description><![CDATA[Would you like to have more of an insight into how your teen is using their online time, but spying on them using tracking software is not your style? How would you like a tool that helps your kids manage their time online so they&rsquo;re better able to balance their productivity with their downtime?<br />
An Australian physician and entrepreneur has created just such a tool, and at the moment, it&rsquo;s completely free.<br />
Without getting too technical, LearnMeter analyses your teen&rsquo;s computer u]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-aussie-software-helping-teens-get-more-out-of-their-screen-time/</link><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2015 12:44:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-aussie-software-helping-teens-get-more-out-of-their-screen-time/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Michael's RULER Story]]></title><description><![CDATA[Michael's story on how using the Mood Meter to recognise and regulate moods and emotions can have a positive impact on yours and your family's lives.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/michaels-ruler-story/</link><pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2015 13:58:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/michaels-ruler-story/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is an apprenticeship right for your teenager?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Students can train as a librarian under the School-Based Apprentice Program.Photo Credit: mosaic36 via Compfight cc<br />
By Robbie Reddie.<br />
In today&rsquo;s competitive work environment, it helps to get on-the-job experience and training at an early age. One option for young people is to become an apprentice. Apprenticeship allows students to gain professional insight and training in a particular industry, while at the same time building up credits towards a qualification. And your teenager wouldn&rsq]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-an-apprenticeship-right-for-your-teenager/</link><pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2015 06:53:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-an-apprenticeship-right-for-your-teenager/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The trolls inside]]></title><description><![CDATA[The worst trolls live inside children's heads; the voice of insecurity, self doubt and fear. This is the troll that kids and parents have to be most vigilant about.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-trolls-inside/</link><pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2015 08:11:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-trolls-inside/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Feeling like a mum or a dad - do you confuse redundancy with irrelevance?]]></title><description><![CDATA[&ldquo;I make myself redundant with my kids by getting them to_____________.&rdquo;  This recent Facebook post provoked some interesting responses about redundancy and irrelevance.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/feeling-like-a-mum-or-a-dad-do-you-confuse-redundancy-with-irrelevance/</link><pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2015 23:50:36 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/feeling-like-a-mum-or-a-dad-do-you-confuse-redundancy-with-irrelevance/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[10 ways to support kids at sport, and keep the sports monster on a leash]]></title><description><![CDATA[A 10 point plan to help you lower the stress levels for you, your family and everyone else involved in your children&rsquo;s sports.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/10-ways-to-support-kids-at-sport-and-keep-the-sports-monster-on-a-leash/</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2015 05:31:48 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/10-ways-to-support-kids-at-sport-and-keep-the-sports-monster-on-a-leash/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Which type of parent are you?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Being aware of your parenting style is one thing, but being able to adapt to different situations, and different children is something that great parents can learn to do.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/which-type-of-parent-are-you/</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2015 03:36:33 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/which-type-of-parent-are-you/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is your child a plunger or a dripper?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Plungers cope easily with change and new circumstances, whereas drippers get anxious and feel unsure. Knowing helps you approach your child accordingly.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-your-child-a-plunger-or-a-dripper/</link><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2015 01:10:34 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-your-child-a-plunger-or-a-dripper/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is the joke on the First Born?]]></title><description><![CDATA[It's true, birth order does shape personality!]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-the-joke-on-the-first-born/</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2015 01:26:30 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-the-joke-on-the-first-born/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Teen idol – when does a celebrity crush become an obsession?]]></title><description><![CDATA[By Eva Rinaldi Celebrity and Live Music Photographer (Flickr) [via Wikimedia Commons]By Phuong Hua.<br />
Just one week remains until boy band One Direction begin their &lsquo;On the Road Again&rsquo; tour in Australia. Many parents of teenage girls are probably anticipating a media frenzy and crowds of screaming adolescents like the kind of pandemonium on display when Justin Bieber appeared on Sunrise five years ago. He was greeted with shrieks, cries, love letters and posters declaring marriage prop]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teen-idol-when-does-a-celebrity-crush-become-an-obsession/</link><pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2015 04:55:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/teen-idol-when-does-a-celebrity-crush-become-an-obsession/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Getting motivated for senior high school]]></title><description><![CDATA[Photo Credit: By Alpha, via Flickr<br />
By Sacha Kaluri.<br />
Have you ever had a long extended break from work? Doesn&rsquo;t it bring out the best in you? You let go of all that stress and the &lsquo;fun and relaxed&rsquo; you comes back to life. Then it&rsquo;s the last week of your holidays and you start to count down the days before you have to go back to that busy work life.<br />
Imagine if, during those holidays, you had people telling you that this year was going to be the most important year of your l]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/getting-motivated-for-senior-high-school/</link><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2015 12:15:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/getting-motivated-for-senior-high-school/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Michael Grose's 10 Golden rules for parenting success in 2015]]></title><description><![CDATA[The start of the year is a great time for reflection, and setting new directions and goals. Here are 10 golden ideas to guide your parenting in 2015.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/michael-groses-10-golden-rules-for-parenting-success-in-2015/</link><pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2015 22:50:39 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/michael-groses-10-golden-rules-for-parenting-success-in-2015/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to talk to your teenager about their future]]></title><description><![CDATA[Photo Credit: michael_swan via Compfight cc<br />
By Lauren Vogel, PhD.<br />
Your teenager was probably five years old when you first asked them what they want to be when they grow up. But the conversation really needs to step up a notch once they hit high school. And it&rsquo;s not always the easiest conversation to have. What you want for your children may be quite different from their own ideas &ndash; and that&rsquo;s if they have any ideas at all. Here are some tips on how to talk to your teen about t]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-talk-to-your-teenager-about-their-future/</link><pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2015 11:26:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-talk-to-your-teenager-about-their-future/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Parenting Word of the Year]]></title><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;The Parenting Word of the Year is big word that represents a big, important theme.&nbsp;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-parenting-word-of-the-year/</link><pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2014 00:33:36 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-parenting-word-of-the-year/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[What happened to 2014?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Well hello old friends. Regular readers probably noticed this website went a bit quiet in 2014. I&rsquo;d like to bring you up to speed on what&rsquo;s been happening and where we&rsquo;re heading.<br />
This time last year we were gearing up for the very busy Ask an Expert Week, where some of Australia&rsquo;s top parenting, teen and education experts answered your questions. I still think it produced some of the best, most helpful content on this website. You can find all the questions and answers]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/what-happened-to-2014/</link><pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2014 08:39:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/what-happened-to-2014/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Voice recognition software giving students the edge]]></title><description><![CDATA[Sponsored. Us Gen X parents may wonder if our kids really need voice recognition software to help them study and complete homework, when we got by with a foolscap binder, a Bic 4-colour biro and some Liquid Paper. Fortunately for our kids, us Gen X parents would rather burn our Abba/The Cure/Nirvana vinyl collection than.. Read more<br />
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Parents since the dawn of time have always have had one goal in mind when raising their children.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-secret-to-raising-confident-kids/</link><pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2014 13:50:12 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/the-secret-to-raising-confident-kids/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Tantalising Thirteen - ten top parenting tips]]></title><description><![CDATA[Thirteen is the age of rebirth where the teen takes over from the child. 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It's an age of exploration, self-discovery and a huge increase in vocabulary.&nbsp;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/raising-terrific-two-year-olds/</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2014 15:35:07 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/raising-terrific-two-year-olds/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Parents of boys – share your thoughts]]></title><description><![CDATA[My name is Lisa, I&#8217;m a writer and a parent of three boys. My eldest is almost 14 and as a parent of a teenage boy I see a tiny taste of his life and of the emotional and physical challenges that face him. I also get frustrated with how he approaches these challenges and.. Read more<br />
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For some, it is a significant way of recognising and appreciating their relationship. For others, it is merely an American ‘Hallmark card’ holiday that Australians have adopted. And then there are those who sit somewhere in between.<br />
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Re]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/ask-an-expert-how-do-i-stop-buying-my-teen-alcohol-without-losing-his-trust-and-respect/</link><pubDate>Fri, 29 Nov 2013 22:04:12 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/ask-an-expert-how-do-i-stop-buying-my-teen-alcohol-without-losing-his-trust-and-respect/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stop violence against women]]></title><description><![CDATA[Family violence is endemic in Australian society.  It does not discriminate against income, race, religion, or location. It can be found just as easily in Sydney’s west as in Melbourne’s leafy suburbs.<br />
Alarming statistics show that family violence affects one in three women, with one death a week resulting from it.<br />
No one can argue that it is acceptable in any form, yet the incidence of family violence is increasing. As an organisation that deals with its impact on families, Relationships A]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/stop-violence-against-women/</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/stop-violence-against-women/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to manage lifecycle changes]]></title><description><![CDATA[If there is one predictable thing about life, it is that it is unpredictable. The way couples manage both the predictable and unpredictable lifecycle stages can determine the health of their relationships.<br />
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		Each stage involves people coming into the family system (a new baby) or leaving the family system (an adult child moving out, or the death of a family member). There are also shades of this, for example, when children start kindergarten and at the other end, with retirement. Moving throu]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-manage-lifecycle-changes/</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Sep 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-manage-lifecycle-changes/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Service for sex abuse survivors]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) will be supporting Victorian survivors of sexual abuse who take part in or are affected by the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse.<br />
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		We are one of 28 organisations nationally to receive Australian Government funding for this vital support service. Our centres in metropolitan Melbourne and regional Victoria will provide therapy, case management and support free of charge to child sex abuse survivors, their families and]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/service-for-sex-abuse-survivors/</link><pubDate>Mon, 12 Aug 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/service-for-sex-abuse-survivors/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Support for mental health]]></title><description><![CDATA[Families in East Gippsland soon will benefit from additional support to cope with mental health issues thanks to more than $1 million in federal funding for a new Family Mental Health Support Service.<br />
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		Relationships Australia Victoria RAV) is one of 17 community-based organisations to win funding over the next three years to support children and young people who experience, or are at risk of, mental health issues.<br />
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		Named I-Connect, the East Gippsland service will be integrated into RAV]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/support-for-mental-health/</link><pubDate>Wed, 07 Aug 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/support-for-mental-health/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Post-wedding blues - dealing with life after the wedding]]></title><description><![CDATA[Our wedding day is much anticipated and we put a great deal of time and energy into making it memorable.  We are surrounded by others - including friends and family – who have their own stories to tell about their wedding day, including challenges and special moments.  But what about the post-wedding period, once the honeymoon is over and life falls back into reality?  The things your partner did before the wedding that annoyed you have not magically disappeared with the fairy dust.<br />
There i]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/post-wedding-blues-dealing-with-life-after-the-wedding/</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Jul 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/post-wedding-blues-dealing-with-life-after-the-wedding/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Solutions to repetitive relationship patterns]]></title><description><![CDATA[In last week’s post we looked at some of the common patterns or cycles that relationships into which relationships can fall.  These included:<br />
• Distancer/pursuer - in this relationship pattern, one person usually pursues the other, while the distancer attempts to increase the distance between the couple.<br />
• Attack/withdraw (or blamer/placater) - one partner blames and criticises the other, often stating that they never initiate anything, aren’t capable of real connection or don’t care;]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/solutions-to-repetitive-relationship-patterns/</link><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jul 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/solutions-to-repetitive-relationship-patterns/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is your relationship in a repetitive cycle?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Is your relationship in a repetitive pattern?  All couples have a tendency to operate in repetitive cycles and it helps to understand and be aware of some of the most common of these.<br />
Consider whether any of the following patterns we see most often in couple therapy apply to your relationship:<br />
Distancer/pursuer <br />
In this relationship pattern, one person usually pursues the other, while the distancer attempts to increase the distance between the couple.  For example, when couples seek therapy f]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-your-relationship-in-a-repetitive-cycle/</link><pubDate>Thu, 27 Jun 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/is-your-relationship-in-a-repetitive-cycle/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Help give children a voice]]></title><description><![CDATA[Did you know that more than one third of children whose parents separate are exposed to domestic violence and sustained high conflict?  This can result in serious consequences for children's healthy development and well-being. <br />
As the State's largest provider of community services for families and children experiencing separation and divorce, RAV has launched a new fundraising appeal to help support children affected by family violence and sustained high conflict following parental separation.]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/help-give-children-a-voice/</link><pubDate>Thu, 06 Jun 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/help-give-children-a-voice/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Young people the spotlight in gambling forum]]></title><description><![CDATA[To mark Responsible Gambling Awareness Week, RAV, the Victorian Responsible Gambling Foundation and Child and Family Services Ballarat will present a parent and community education forum on Wednesday 22 May in Ballarat.<br />
The forum will have a particular focus on young people and address gambling trends, emerging technology – including the growth in online gambling and gaming smart phone apps - as well as traditional forms of gambling.<br />
RAV Gambler’s Help Coordinator, Kathy Griffin will partici]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/young-people-the-spotlight-in-gambling-forum/</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/young-people-the-spotlight-in-gambling-forum/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Making Mother's Day special]]></title><description><![CDATA[Here are some tips to make the day memorable:  <br />
Instead of joining the crowds at the shops, consider a little handmade gift – whether that be a card, a posy of flowers from your garden, a humorous badge or her favourite breakfast, gifts made with time and love can be the most uplifting.<br />
Find out what your mother would value most on her special day and strive to make it happen. Don't assume that this will involve spending the entire day with the family - an ever-elusive sleep-in, time alone to]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/making-mothers-day-special/</link><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/making-mothers-day-special/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Focus on family violence]]></title><description><![CDATA[Family violence is endemic in Australian society.  It does not discriminate against income, race, religion, or location. It can be found just as easily in Sydney’s west as in Melbourne’s leafy suburbs.<br />
		<br />
		Alarming statistics show that family violence affects one in three women, with one death a week resulting from it. No one can argue that it is acceptable in any form, yet the incidence of family violence is increasing. <br />
		<br />
		As an organisation that deals with its impact on families, Rela]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/focus-on-family-violence/</link><pubDate>Mon, 29 Apr 2013 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/focus-on-family-violence/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Help us make a difference]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) has been supporting Victorians for nearly 65 years.<br />
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		We started out in 1948 offering marriage guidance for couples struggling to readjust to married life after the Second World War.<br />
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		Of course times have changed, and with them so have people’s needs and RAV’s response to those needs.<br />
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		In contrast to the early years, we have very diverse clients – families, children, couples and individuals, including people from other cultures and Aborigin]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/help-us-make-a-difference/</link><pubDate>Tue, 02 Apr 2013 15:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/help-us-make-a-difference/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[We welcome the Prime Minister's apology for forced adoptions]]></title><description><![CDATA[ <br />
Relationships Australia today congratulated Prime Minister Julia Gillard, as she delivered an historical apology on behalf of the Australian Government, to people affected by forced adoption or removal policies and practices.<br />
The national apology was witnessed by over 800 victims of forced or past adoptions in the Great Hall at Parliament House, including Meg Hale, who had her baby girl forcibly taken from her straight after giving birth as an 18 year old in 1968. <br />
Meg said today’s apology]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/we-welcome-the-prime-ministers-apology-for-forced-adoptions/</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/we-welcome-the-prime-ministers-apology-for-forced-adoptions/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Racism stops with me]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) is proud to affirm its commitment to ending racism on the International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination.<br />
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		RAV has joined forces with some of Australia’s leading businesses, sporting bodies and NGOs to support the “Racism. It stops with me” campaign, being led by the Australian Human Rights Commission.<br />
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		The campaign emphasises the importance of taking a stand against racism whenever it happens.<br />
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		Our commitment to this initi]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/racism-stops-with-me/</link><pubDate>Wed, 20 Mar 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/racism-stops-with-me/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Australia's first National Children's Commissioner appointed]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia welcomes the recent appointment of Ms Megan Mitchell as Australia’s first National Children’s Commissioner.  Prime Minister, Julia Gillard announced the appointment as part of the National Framework for Protecting Australia’s Children 2009-2020.<br />
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		Relationships Australia’s Chair of the National Board, Mr Mat Rowell is delighted that Australian children will now have a national voice, “Ms Mitchell’s appointment is an important step in the right direction o]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/australias-first-national-childrens-commissioner-appointed/</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Mar 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/australias-first-national-childrens-commissioner-appointed/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Affirm your relationship]]></title><description><![CDATA[Valentine’s Day is one of those days that can provoke a range of emotions. Some people revel in it, some believe it is an unnecessary and commercial exploitation and others are completely ambivalent to it.<br />
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		Whatever your feelings may be about the day itself, the fact that it brings relationships into focus can be a good excuse to take stock of your own. Relationships need maintenance like any other facet of your life, and with the current divorce rate in Australia hovering around 35 per ce]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/affirm-your-relationship/</link><pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/affirm-your-relationship/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Make a date to talk about money]]></title><description><![CDATA[Do you and your partner discuss finances?   Research suggests that if you want your relationship – as well as your bank balance - to prosper, you should talk to your partner about money.<br />
A good way to approach this – according to Australian Securities &amp; Investments Commission (ASIC)’s MoneySmart and Relationships Australia - is to set a date to discuss finances.<br />
Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) Manager, Social Inclusion, Sue Yorston says that successful relationships are based o]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/make-a-date-to-talk-about-money/</link><pubDate>Thu, 07 Feb 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/make-a-date-to-talk-about-money/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[First day at school]]></title><description><![CDATA[In only a few days, this year’s intake of prep children embark on years of formal education.<br />
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		For most it is an exciting time, full of new experiences, new friends and lots of different activities. For some, it can be quite unsettling and confusing.<br />
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		Fortunately, these days many parents have the opportunity to take their prep to their new school the previous year, when they get to see the classroom and meet their teacher.<br />
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		This not only helps to demystify the process for the chil]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/first-day-at-school/</link><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/first-day-at-school/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Managing after a bushfire]]></title><description><![CDATA[Following bushfires, individuals, families and communities suffer enormous loss on many levels. <br />
The sense of loss can be overwhelming. This includes the physical impact of the fires, as well as grief over lost items such as treasured mementos, photos, and the loss of stock animals and family pets.<br />
It takes time and energy to clean up, process insurance claims and replace property. People busy themselves doing what they can to recover from the disaster. <br />
However, once life starts to resemble ]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/managing-after-a-bushfire/</link><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jan 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/managing-after-a-bushfire/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Celebrate your anniversary]]></title><description><![CDATA[Is celebrating a wedding anniversary a thing of the past, a ritual that should be relegated to the irrelevant sentimentality basket?<br />
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		Or does the anniversary provide an opportunity for couples to celebrate the strength of their relationship, and remind each other of why they got together in the first place?<br />
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		If you are still happily married but ambivalent about such a celebration, the following reasons for marking the milestone may help to change your mind.<br />
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		An anniversary celebratio]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/celebrate-your-anniversary/</link><pubDate>Mon, 07 Jan 2013 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/celebrate-your-anniversary/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Mums should unite, instead of ignite]]></title><description><![CDATA[Motherhood – it’s often described as the most challenging role we will ever undertake.  Raising a child involves dedication, patience, negotiation and communication skills, the ability to successfully impart our own values to our child, along with considerable energy. However, rather than supporting each other, some mums become competitive in their efforts to allay anxiety around whether they are a good mother. <br />
Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) Counsellor, Danielle Ollington says the]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/mums-should-unite-instead-of-ignite/</link><pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/mums-should-unite-instead-of-ignite/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Surviving Christmas]]></title><description><![CDATA[Are you worried about tension between family members on Christmas Day?  RAV’s Practice Leader, Counselling, Dr Ingrid Sturmey says planning the day well and having a good attitude is paramount. <br />
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		Before the big day<br />
If you’re hosting Christmas Day, structure it so that there is less alcohol and some distance between those people who don’t get along. If possible, try to involve everyone. Keep the day moving; even plan a trip to the park or beach if it will keep things on track. This w]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/surviving-christmas/</link><pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/surviving-christmas/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are you having trouble finding time for you?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Are you in a relationship but craving a little time on your own?  Don’t panic – spending time alone can help to keep your relationship strong and healthy.  In today’s busy world, many of us have a range of competing demands on our time.  Juggling work, children, extended family, a social life and hobbies can not only drain our energy, it can rob us of the opportunity for solitude.<br />
Danielle Ollington, Counsellor at Relationships Australia Victoria, says there are many benefits to spendi]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/are-you-having-trouble-finding-time-for-you/</link><pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/are-you-having-trouble-finding-time-for-you/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[A relationship counsellor's perspective on pre-nuptial agreements]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today people are staying single longer and acquiring more assets - or bringing assets from past relationships - when they start a new relationship.  Successful relationships are based on shared perspective.  Whether you are establishing or affirming a relationship, it is important to find out about your partner’s values and compare your expectations and outlook on practical issues such as career, finances and where to live.<br />
Although these may all be considered non-romantic topics, not disc]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/a-relationship-counsellors-perspective-on-pre-nuptial-agreements/</link><pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2012 15:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/a-relationship-counsellors-perspective-on-pre-nuptial-agreements/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Are you suffering from lack of libido?]]></title><description><![CDATA[For many couples, it can be hard work sustaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship.  Some couples find they become very child focused as they work hard to meet their childrens’ needs.  For others, there may be issues such as old hurts and resentments, ongoing conflict, or perceived or actual infidelity which adversely affect libido.  There may also be periods in life where libido drops as a result of life events or emotional health.<br />
According to Relationships Australia Victoria]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/are-you-suffering-from-lack-of-libido/</link><pubDate>Mon, 13 Aug 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/are-you-suffering-from-lack-of-libido/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gamblers: look for local help]]></title><description><![CDATA[The recent gambling related-suicide in Ballarat and fraud case in Adelaide are stark reminders of the devastating impact of problem gambling on individuals, their families and friends.<br />
I urge people whose lives are falling apart because of gambling to seek help from counselling and other services in their local community.<br />
Tragedy can be avoided if people seek appropriate help from services close to them.<br />
We know how difficult it can be to take that step. The experience of our counsellors is th]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/gamblers-look-for-local-help/</link><pubDate>Sun, 22 Jul 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/gamblers-look-for-local-help/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Housemate or partner?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you been married or living with a partner for a few years, yet sleep separately, perhaps even in different rooms? Is your relationship lacking affection and sex?<br />
If you answered yes to these questions, your relationship may be heading for 'housemate' territory, if it isn't already there.<br />
Other signs can include living separate lives, where perhaps one person is focused on individual pursuits, and the other on caring for the children, with little or no time spent together as a couple.<br />
Women]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/housemate-or-partner/</link><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/housemate-or-partner/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Constructive look at men's relationships]]></title><description><![CDATA[Next week is Men's Health Week, an excellent opportunity to focus on men's health issues in a positive way. What better time for men to have a look at their relationships - with their partner, children, family, friends - and see whether there are any cracks.<br />
When it comes to relationship issues, our experience is that men are often baffled by some of the commonly-used counselling language and self-help terminology and may not seek help until it is too late.<br />
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		Our booklet titled Renovate your]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/constructive-look-at-mens-relationships/</link><pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/constructive-look-at-mens-relationships/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Child grooming - a nightmare for parents]]></title><description><![CDATA[Recent news reports of young children who have been groomed online by sexual predators have deeply concerned many parents.<br />
Child grooming refers to a set of strategies an older person uses to develop a relationship with a child, usually of a sexual nature.  And it doesn't just occur online, it can happen anywhere - such as sports, religious and music activities - so it is important that parents are informed. <br />
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		Sexual predators tend to use a variety of strategies to build up a relationship w]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/child-grooming-a-nightmare-for-parents/</link><pubDate>Sun, 27 May 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/child-grooming-a-nightmare-for-parents/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Helping diverse communities]]></title><description><![CDATA[The makeup of the population has changed dramatically in recent decades as a result of progressive Australian Government immigration policies which have encouraged the development of a vibrant and cohesive multicultural society.<br />
As the community has become more complex and diverse, so have its needs and the requirement for community service providers to respond.<br />
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		For our part, Relationships Australia Victoria has evolved from an organisation delivering primarily "marriage guidance" service]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/helping-diverse-communities/</link><pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/helping-diverse-communities/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Responsible Gambling Awareness Week]]></title><description><![CDATA[Responsible Gambling Awareness Week (RGAW) is about urging everyone who "likes a flutter" to take a balanced approach and stay in control.<br />
We encourage everyone not to let gambling take over their lives.<br />
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		Research shows that gambling is one of the most distinctive aspects of Australian life. It is estimated that today more than 3.8 million Victorians gamble in one form or another, with online gambling growing as a popular choice.<br />
		<br />
		However, whichever form of gambling is enjoyed, the the]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/responsible-gambling-awareness-week/</link><pubDate>Thu, 24 May 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/responsible-gambling-awareness-week/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Happy families]]></title><description><![CDATA[ <br />
For a lucky few, this is smooth sailing, but for most of us, there is a relationship with at least one person in our family or our partner's family that does not flow easily.<br />
At family gatherings, you can experience a knot in the stomach at the thought of being in the same room (anxiety), or you may revert back to feeling like an adolescent (and acting like one).<br />
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		Family therapist Murray Bowen spoke about the incredibly strong emotional pull our families have over us.  He argued that the]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/happy-families/</link><pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/happy-families/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[When mothers are the main breadwinners]]></title><description><![CDATA[ <br />
With living costs in Australia continuing to rise and financial stress the leading cause of relationship breakdown, it is not surprising that more mothers are choosing to return to full-time work post-baby.<br />
But what are the implications when the mother is the main breadwinner of the family? The working mum and stay-at-home dad isn't a traditional role in Australia, so couples in this situation may find there are few role models to follow.<br />
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		Forging new ground can be a challenge, but with s]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/when-mothers-are-the-main-breadwinners/</link><pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/when-mothers-are-the-main-breadwinners/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Rogue states in the workplace]]></title><description><![CDATA[Playgrounds and workplaces have this in common, while evolving they can remain remarkable time capsules of language, lore, and behaviour passed from one generation to the next.  We have been reminded of this by the latest spats about the culture prevailing in the Defence Force and by the disclosures and allegations of workplace abuse within the Australian Government. These revelations create an historical as well as cognitive dissonance, not so much that abuses and bad behaviour exist, but beca]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/rogue-states-in-the-workplace/</link><pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/rogue-states-in-the-workplace/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Social media use has its downside]]></title><description><![CDATA[Our survey on the use of social media and technology shows it is having an impact on the family and relationships, despite the positive aspects.<br />
A significant majority of the 120 Relationships Australia practitioners who took part in the survey told us that issues relating to social media and technology are cropping up more often in family and relationship counselling sessions.<br />
And 40 per cent of community respondents told us that social media was causing problems in their relationships, largely]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/social-media-use-has-its-downside/</link><pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/social-media-use-has-its-downside/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be prepared for Valentine's Day]]></title><description><![CDATA[Like it or loathe it, Valentine's Day has become a fixture in the romantic calendar of many Australians, particularly the under 40s.<br />
Yet not all of us feel the same way about 14 February.<br />
For some, celebrating Valentine's Day is an important way of injecting romance into an important relationship - that feeling of being admired and desired.<br />
For others, the the day is a load of old rubbish and just another sentimental fad Australians have imported from the US - a marketing of emotions.<br />
And then t]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/be-prepared-for-valentines-day/</link><pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/be-prepared-for-valentines-day/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Be bushfire ready and leave]]></title><description><![CDATA[It is nearly three years ago that bushfires devastated many Victorian communities, shattering lives and livelihoods and leaving the State, in fact the country, in shock.<br />
Since those dark days, much has been done to rebuild fire-affected regions and support individuals, families and communities to recover.<br />
		<br />
		RAV's Traralgon Centre has been an active participant in the Gippsland bushfire recovery program, providing free counselling and outreach services over many months to support those in need]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/be-bushfire-ready-and-leave/</link><pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/be-bushfire-ready-and-leave/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Don't worry, the kids will be fine]]></title><description><![CDATA[This week, thousands of parents across Victoria are facing the start of another school year after six weeks with the kids on holidays.<br />
Despite the relief that many will feel, this can be an emotional and anxious time for parents.<br />
		<br />
		The first transition is from kindergarten to school, significant because your baby is now growing up and taking their first real steps up the educational ladder.<br />
		<br />
		Letting go is difficult for some parents who worry they will no longer be there for most of the ti]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/dont-worry-the-kids-will-be-fine/</link><pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/dont-worry-the-kids-will-be-fine/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Let's celebrate the diverse Aussie]]></title><description><![CDATA[January 26 has been celebrated officially as Australia Day since 1946. Variously called "First Landing Day", "Foundation Day", "Anniversary Day" and "Survival Day", this day of commemoration has collected many layers of significance as we evolve in national identity and maturity.<br />
Tomorrow, we are invited to reflect on what it means to be Australian in 2012, and how this influences the way we relate to ourselves, each other and our history.<br />
		<br />
		The traditional Australian narrative has be]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/lets-celebrate-the-diverse-aussie/</link><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/lets-celebrate-the-diverse-aussie/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Online gambling: a hidden problem]]></title><description><![CDATA[There has been much talk in the media this year about gambling in the context of Australian Government proposals to introduce pokies reform.<br />
Relationships Australia Victoria is on the record as supporting these reforms as we see the destructive side of problem gambling and its impact on individuals, families and the community. <br />
		<br />
		While the focus of the debate to date has been on pokies, we should not forget about the increasing problem of online gambling, which has been growing at a rate of u]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/online-gambling-a-hidden-problem/</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/online-gambling-a-hidden-problem/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Take the boredom out of holidays]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are still a few weeks left of the school holidays, a time when boredom can set in and kids get restless.<br />
Don't despair - there are many ways you and your family can have a special holiday which will be long remembered.<br />
Holidays need to be about doing a lot of different things, such as board games, walks, backyard cricket, going to a movie - not spending hours a day on Facebook and Twitter.<br />
Many of us spend so much time in pressure situations in front of computers, studying or working. To s]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/take-the-boredom-out-of-holidays/</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/take-the-boredom-out-of-holidays/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[10 tips for freshening up your relationship]]></title><description><![CDATA[With the festive season upon us, our relationship can sometimes take a back seat to Christmas preparations, work and parenting.  Use the approaching holiday season to reflect on and put some energy back into your relationship.<br />
10 tips for freshening up a relationship:<br />
		Tip 1<br />
		 What:   Preserve the rituals you have that bring you both pleasure; and create new ones.<br />
		 How:    Think about what you do together on holidays that can become part of your life; go for a bike ride toget]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/10-tips-for-freshening-up-your-relationship/</link><pubDate>Tue, 20 Dec 2011 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/10-tips-for-freshening-up-your-relationship/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to survive (and enjoy) Christmas]]></title><description><![CDATA[Christmas is a stressful time as expectations of ourselves and our family come into focus on one day. Our family and our life may not be exactly what we dream about, but we can manage the expectations and enjoy the season anyway. Relationships Australia Victoria has some tips on preparing for the big day and handling Christmas Day itself.<br />
Be prepared<br />
While we sometimes think that more is better, most people like a present that shows that you really thought about them - you don't want to be worri]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-survive-and-enjoy-christmas/</link><pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-survive-and-enjoy-christmas/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Violence program helps Vietnamese men]]></title><description><![CDATA[A successful Vietnamese-speaking men and family violence group run in Melbourne's northwest region in 2011 could pave the way for future programs that address the needs of culturally diverse communities.<br />
Relationships Australia Victoria ran the program through our Sunshine Centre, with a grant from the Legal Services Board Grants Program.<br />
		<br />
		The Centre runs entry level, behaviour change and ongoing mentor groups for men who have been violent and controlling towards family members.<br />
		<br />
		It mana]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/violence-program-helps-vietnamese-men/</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/violence-program-helps-vietnamese-men/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Swear to make a difference]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) urges Victorian men to join this year's White Ribbon campaign and take the oath to stop violence against women: "I swear never to commit, excuse or remain silent about violence against women. This is my oath."<br />
By making this simple but powerful pledge, men will send a strong message that violence is not acceptable and should not be tolerated under any circumstances.<br />
		<br />
		RAV supports White Ribbon Day, 25 November, an annual event of the White Ribbon Found]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/swear-to-make-a-difference/</link><pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2011 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/swear-to-make-a-difference/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to have a healthy argument]]></title><description><![CDATA[The ability to deal with conflict is an important life skill because conflict is part of life.  If we were all the same, there would be no conflict, but it is the differences between us which create our personal growth, because we are moved outside our comfort zones.<br />
Our differences create competing wants and needs and ways of doing things.  Negative feelings often arise when our needs are not being met or we are giving too much - we may feel angry, anxious, frustrated or sad.  A sense of inj]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-have-a-healthy-argument/</link><pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-to-have-a-healthy-argument/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Free Gippsland Women's Forum]]></title><description><![CDATA[Join like-minded women in Gippsland for a day of learning, exploring and connecting with others.  This 3rd Annual Forum offers the opporunity to take part in a fun and diverse range of workshops; with topics ranging from self-discovery to relationship education and practical learning. <br />
You will also hear from inspirational keynote speakers, Janine Shepherd and Brad Blaze.  A lunchtime Expo and Gala Dinner complete the day.  This event is taking place on Saturday 26 November and is free of]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/free-gippsland-womens-forum/</link><pubDate>Wed, 02 Nov 2011 14:00:00 +0100</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/free-gippsland-womens-forum/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Positive despite cuts]]></title><description><![CDATA[RAV is optimistic about the future and new opportunities that may come from sector reform, despite a difficult environment which has seen the organisation's core funding cut for the first time.<br />
CEO Andrew Bickerdike told the 63rd Annual General Meeting last night that federal funding for counselling and family dispute resolution was cut by 5% and 3% respectively, effective from July 2011. In addition, Family Relationship Centre funding had been reduced by 4%, effective from January 2012.  ]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/positive-despite-cuts/</link><pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 15:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/positive-despite-cuts/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Easing the pain of separation and divorce]]></title><description><![CDATA[Separating from a partner can be an incredibly painful process. It's the end of a dream that never will be again.  When you are parents as well as partners, it's really important to stay focused on your children's needs, both now and in the future. This is asking a lot when there is hurt, disappointment and betrayal; and you feel at your lowest in terms of emotional resources.<br />
Ideally, talk to your children together, giving an explanation of your separation which is appropriate for your child's]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/easing-the-pain-of-separation-and-divorce/</link><pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 15:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/easing-the-pain-of-separation-and-divorce/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Enjoyment is the key]]></title><description><![CDATA[When your first bundle of joy arrives, it is difficult to believe that in only five years, this new little person could be running you ragged as you traipse from ballet class to Auskick to music lessons, as well as fitting in five days of school each week.<br />
A few generations ago children went to school, came home, did chores and homework, then probably went out to play.  The myriad activities that seem to be on offer for primary school-aged children just wasn't available.<br />
Today there is a lot o]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/enjoyment-is-the-key/</link><pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 15:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/enjoyment-is-the-key/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[RAV to provide services offshore]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia Victoria (RAV) - in partnership with the Family Court of Australia - will deliver professional development services to Indonesian court judges in 2012, thanks to a new contract with AusAID. <br />
The new contract aims to ensure the voice of women and children is heard during court hearings; and will involve RAV developing and delivering professional training for Sharia Court Judges in Indonesia next year.  This is the first time that RAV has extended its services to an inter]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/rav-to-provide-services-offshore/</link><pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/rav-to-provide-services-offshore/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Mixed reaction to social media]]></title><description><![CDATA[The preliminary findings of a Relationships Australia Victoria ( RAV) community survey on social media and technology show a mixed reaction in terms of their impact on relationships.<br />
The community survey and another for practitioners are being undertaken by RAV as part of a national initiative under the theme: Relationships of the future and how we will work with them. <br />
The surveys aim to explore the impact of technology and social media on relationships from both a positive and negative perspe]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/mixed-reaction-to-social-media/</link><pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/mixed-reaction-to-social-media/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Get money smart, avoid stress]]></title><description><![CDATA[The 2011 Relationships Indicators Survey shows that financial stress is the cause of 26% of relationship breakdowns.<br />
This is why RAV is pleased to support ASIC's Mortgage Health Month campaign being run throughout September in response to rising rates of mortgage default.<br />
 The campaign is designed to encourage consumers to take early action when they spot signs of mortgage stress.  This may not only protect their finances, but also their relationships.<br />
 ASIC's MoneySmart website includes pr]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/get-money-smart-avoid-stress/</link><pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/get-money-smart-avoid-stress/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Celebrating diversity and fatherhood]]></title><description><![CDATA[Fathers contribute to families and the welfare of their children in many ways: these diverse contributions are shaped by cultural and social factors that influence the priority of the different roles fathers play.<br />
In some traditional contexts, fathers are viewed as the head of their families and assume primary responsibility for their children's moral or religious education.<br />
More generally, the roles of fathers as contributors, alongside mothers, to the emotional and practical support of their p]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/celebrating-diversity-and-fatherhood/</link><pubDate>Mon, 22 Aug 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/celebrating-diversity-and-fatherhood/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Summit focuses on family law]]></title><description><![CDATA[Family law is one of the most harrowing areas of legal practice, involving the breakup of families and their assets.<br />
The 8th Family Law Summit will be held in Melbourne on 1 September when speakers offer solutions to some of the most vexing problems for family law practitioners.<br />
Relationships Australia Victoria endorses this important summit, and our Chief Executive Officer, Dr Andrew Bickerdike, will be one of the panelists in a discussion on the Family Law Act amendments "the need for safety]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/summit-focuses-on-family-law/</link><pubDate>Tue, 09 Aug 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/summit-focuses-on-family-law/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[To err is human]]></title><description><![CDATA[There seems to be an increasing trend in our modern society to blame others for mistakes, rather than take responsibility for our own contribution.<br />
This behaviour can become established in early childhood, especially if children learn that blaming others and making excuses protect them from a sense of parental rejection.<br />
If children often experience angry or frustrated responses from a parent over a simple human error, such as spillage or breakage, the child can take this personally and associat]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/to-err-is-human/</link><pubDate>Wed, 27 Jul 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/to-err-is-human/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Property mediation workshops]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you are interested in learning how to conduct property mediation, our skills-based workshops may be the answer.<br />
RAV is offering workshops with experienced practitioners to prepare you to conduct property mediation.<br />
The workshops are designed as an induction into practice. They will demystify the technical aspects of property mediation and support practitioners from all professional backgrounds to gain the confidence to do this work in what is an expanding area of practice.<br />
The first workshop]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/property-mediation-workshops/</link><pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/property-mediation-workshops/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Survey spotlight on relationships]]></title><description><![CDATA[Relationships Australia/CUA's 2011 Relationships Indicators Survey, released today, reveals that more than 40 per cent of Australians who use an average of four methods of technology to communicate with their friends or family feel lonely, compared to 11 per cent of those who use one form of technology.<br />
This is the 7th Relationships Indicators Survey undertaken by Relationships Australia and is sponsored by CUA.<br />
Australians who reported frequently feeling lonely identified SMS (67 per cent) and]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/survey-spotlight-on-relationships/</link><pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/survey-spotlight-on-relationships/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[When life goes wrong]]></title><description><![CDATA[We are surrounded by disappointment, loss, sadness and trauma on a daily basis - if it's not you or a member of your family, then it's a friend, the friend of a friend or a celebrity.<br />
We just need to watch the news to hear stories of life gone wrong, whether it's depicting floods, fires, earthquakes, terrorist attacks or other atrocities. Sometimes it is more hidden like affairs, miscarriages, and IVF treatments. Sometimes it's ongoing like illness, and disability.<br />
How do we cope when life goes]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/when-life-goes-wrong/</link><pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/when-life-goes-wrong/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Seeking your views on social media]]></title><description><![CDATA[The online world is dramatically changing the way we live and relate to each other.<br />
Today we can do so many things in this space, it is difficult to imagine our lives without the ability to jump online from wherever we are - to check our email or Facebook page, buy and sell, make travel plans, find a partner, seek out past friends and make new ones, post comments about issues, do our banking, read newspapers, watch videos. The list goes on.<br />
The phenomenal take up of social networking sites such]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/seeking-your-views-on-social-media/</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jul 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/seeking-your-views-on-social-media/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Facing up to family violence]]></title><description><![CDATA[More than 33 per cent of women in Australia from various socio-economic backgrounds are affected by family violence.  Women from immigrant, Aboriginal and rural communities and those with disabilities often face additional difficulties.<br />
Family violence is a deliberate act and is rarely an isolated event. Over time, the violence tends to increase in frequency and severity.  Furthermore, it often takes six to eight attempts before a woman finally leaves a violent relationship. Many women don't]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/facing-up-to-family-violence/</link><pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/facing-up-to-family-violence/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[How do I meet the right partner?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Are you hoping to find 'the one' for you? Some of the following tips for finding love might surprise you, beginning with the relationship you have with yourself.<br />
High level of self esteem<br />
		How would you rate your own self esteem? When you feel good about yourself, other people sense this and you are more likely to attract someone who treats you well. For higher self esteem, make sure you engage in self care activities like exercise, eating well, relaxation, listening to music that makes you fee]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-do-i-meet-the-right-partner/</link><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jun 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/how-do-i-meet-the-right-partner/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[A blueprint for intimacy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Next time you are running yourself ragged making sure your child has all the stimulation needed to best develop their gross and fine motor skills, along with their verbal and social skills, stop and think for a moment: are you providing your children with the skills to be successful life partners?<br />
Experts have described the parental relationship as a 'child's blueprint for intimacy' because they observe how we handle this area of our life in order to learn how to do it themselves.<br />
In fact, the b]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/a-blueprint-for-intimacy/</link><pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/a-blueprint-for-intimacy/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Child care without guilt]]></title><description><![CDATA[Ask most parents how they feel when they leave their cherished baby or child in care for the first time and the word "guilty" may creep into the conversation.<br />
It's natural for parents to worry that their child may feel unhappy or abandoned, and only a short step to feeling guilty. Some parents have been known to sit in their car crying after drop-off, especially if they have left a crying child behind.<br />
But if the care environment is a secure and loving one, it's highly likely the child will]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/child-care-without-guilt/</link><pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/child-care-without-guilt/</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[My experience with gambling]]></title><description><![CDATA[Welcome to RAV's new blog.<br />
Through the blog, we aim to encourage discussion and debate about topical relationship and community issues. Over time, we will establish a range of categories covering broad areas of interest - relationships, parenting, gambling support, social diversity and inclusion, family violence, children's issues to name a few.<br />
The blog will not include an online counselling facility or provide any form of individual relationship advice or support.<br />
Our first post is one woman]]></description><link>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/my-experience-with-gambling/</link><pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 16:00:00 +0200</pubDate><guid>https://www.newslocker.com/en-au/news/youth-and-parenting/my-experience-with-gambling/</guid></item></channel></rss>